Question:
Do you want a big family?
2011-12-04 11:26:34 UTC
How big?
And if you do, are you going to worry about what people may think of you, if you're having like 7 children? (Because any number over 3 is more than average in modern society)

BQ: Is having a big family just a dream of yours or are you ready to do what it takes? (Because having many kids is hard work)

Sorry, if I offended anyone, I'm just curious. Any number of kids can be great :)
27 answers:
al ♥
2011-12-04 11:52:55 UTC
I want at the very least, 3. I would really like 4 though. 2 girls and 2 boys. :) I would probably be willing to have at most 5 or 6, though. I really want a big family, because it seems like big families have all the fun. I only have one brother, and always wish i had more siblings.



I'm not really sure if I'd be able to handle a lot of kids. I've always loved babies, and I'd love to have a house full of kids, but I'm sure after 2 or 3 I'll change my mind on having more.



I would never have more kids than i could handle, or even have kids at all if i wasn't ready, because i want to be a great mom and love all my children unconditionally, and be able to give them everything.



Hope this helps. :)
2014-05-31 14:16:36 UTC
If I had a job that payed for it all I would have as much as she wants and if she did not have a limit the only limit would be how good my job is then I like big family's
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2016-10-16 15:06:44 UTC
I Want A Big Family
2011-12-04 11:47:58 UTC
Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. I really want 4 daughters, but 2 would be perfect. I'm expecting a little girl, due in March and she will be the center of my world for a long time before I want another child. I wouldn't want one child to feel left out, because there were so many other siblings!



BQ: If I wasn't financially stable then I wouldn't even dream of having a big family, but since I am and I have a very good paying job, I would be able to handle it. Sometimes I want a big family, but then when I see a big family the parents look overwhelmed and I don't know if I could handle it. But I think I could.
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2011-12-04 11:31:46 UTC
YES!!! I know I love children, because I babysit for over 8 families and one has 4 children. It's a lot of hard work, but I think if people are going to judge you on how big the size of your family is, they are probably not a people person. Because having a big family can mean many things: you are a gentle, humble, loving mother who is organized enough to not lose her chesnuts every time something goes wrong. Plus, a lot of kids like to have friends with big families because it adds excitement. Sure, things can get crazy, but you just have to remember that you brought these kids into the world and now your responsible for them. So everything is more fun when theres more people. Plus, no one gets bored, and I'm the kinda person that needs to constantly be doing something or sleeping. Yeah, I want a big family.
Speak your heart; don't bite your tongue.™ღ
2011-12-04 12:37:16 UTC
Well, I would love to have a big family, but I ideally want 4 children. To me that's a big family and I think big families are really cool; the buzz and there's always someone to talk to and play with. I don't care what people think of me, if I have many children, because I am only going to have a certain amount of children and that's going to be how many I can afford and give them the best life possible.



BQ: Yup, I know having a family is hard work and you have to devote your whole time to them, and also having a big family doesn't come cheap. I am hopefully going to university/college next year and I am going to become a neonatal nurse. I'm going to work a bit, save money on myself and then move to Canada. Get married and have a big family (:



I'd like 4 children: Lily Rose, Jasmine Isabella, Charlie James and Harry Benjamin
Rod
2011-12-04 11:49:30 UTC
My wife wants six, I want four. Six has always been her dream. I suggested a happy medium at five but she doesn't like odd numbers, bizarre that could be a reason I know. We currently have two, one on the way. One on the way was a shock, we'll have 29 months between the eldest and youngest... crazy times. She's half way towards her dream of six though! We'll be like the Brady Bunch...

I think so long as you can financially and emotionally deal with a big family go for it. In the end its nothing to do with anyone else.
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2011-12-04 12:01:20 UTC
I have always loved kids and wanted a big family, I would love to have 6 -8 kids but I won't know if that's how many I actually want until I actually start my family. I want at least 3 kids. I come from kind of a big family, I am one of five.
Ari
2011-12-04 11:34:46 UTC
I think I would like to have four kids. I have only one sibling, and as a kid I always wished I had more! Both of my parents are one of three siblings, and it always seems that two side against one, so I think four is more balanced. Having multiple children (or any children!) is always a challenge but I think four is a manageable number. But of course, it depends on what my partner wants, and how we are doing financially, and how the family dynamic changes with the addition of each new child.
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2011-12-04 11:36:21 UTC
I'm not sure how many kids I want but I grew up in a large family as well as my boy but so far we have one son and planning on having another kid soon



BQ : if I do end up having a big family its f*ck what other people say because I don't give a sh*t what other people think
?
2011-12-04 11:45:35 UTC
I don't want a large family. I would want two or three. I think that three is more of the number I want so the parent to child ratio stays even, ha ha. My parents had five children, but I don't think that I could handle it. I personally believe any amount of children is hard-work.
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2011-12-04 11:45:22 UTC
Ideally I would like 3 kids. I already have one little boy.



If I ended up having more or less than 3 children i'd be happy.
shadowboxer
2011-12-04 11:45:17 UTC
I want 3-5 kids.



BQ: I'm not even out of high school yet so after college, getting a stable job, & marriage I think I will be prepared! I do love children.



2011-12-04 11:44:11 UTC
I have 5 kids plus one on the way!

No, i don't worry about that.



BQ: Yes it is hard at times but i would never change my life. I love my kids :)
?
2011-12-04 11:31:40 UTC
I want betwee 4 and 6 kids.

No I dont care what people think. Period.



BQ: Its something i have always wanted. I lvoe kids and im ready for that responsibility.
2011-12-04 11:49:54 UTC
I want 5 kids! 4 girls and 1 boy!
?
2011-12-04 11:30:01 UTC
Any number of kids is fine with me. Just nit toooooo big! I don't care what people think of me. you shouldn't either.I think you can still follow your dreams and have a family at the same time!
Maria Grace
2011-12-04 11:32:24 UTC
I want a family of six, four kids:)



BQ: I am ready and financially stable for a big family:)
?
2016-07-04 18:29:59 UTC
Omg hell yes. I wanted to be born in a big family because having one younger brother that sits in front of his xbox all day long isn't exactly fun, you know? I always envied those with more siblings, or those that had close relationships with their cousins and stuff.

As for HAVING a family, i don't know. I prefer adoption honestly, but if i do change my mind in the future, i'd like three kids lol
?
2011-12-04 11:38:30 UTC
i want 1 or 2 kids definatly no more than 2
2011-12-04 11:28:29 UTC
I want 5 children, 3 girls and 2 boys :').
Live Love Laugh
2011-12-04 12:12:52 UTC
i want 4 kids.. He*ll no I'm not gonna worry what other people may think of me
?
2011-12-04 11:29:14 UTC
Yes, I don't care about what people say, I love children.
2011-12-04 11:30:29 UTC
Yes, I want 4 kids as well. :)
2011-12-04 11:29:04 UTC
yes because right now i have eight kids of my own and i adopted 4 so i enjoy it
alien~
2011-12-04 11:27:45 UTC
Yes.



I want 4 kids.
?
2011-12-04 11:34:37 UTC
Nope! I don't want kids.. but i'm preg. this will be my only one.


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